Women’s circles are an ancient practice dating back to the earliest human societies, where women would gather to share experiences, support one another, and pass down knowledge about life, fertility, and spirituality. This tradition has deep roots in many cultures worldwide, from the Indigenous tribes of the Americas—where women gathered in Red Tents to rest and celebrate menstruation (Diamant, 1997)—to African and Asian communities, where female gatherings were essential for social cohesion and communal well-being (Eisler, 1987).
The Historical Importance of Women’s Circles
Before patriarchal societies became dominant, many communities were structured more equally, often centered around matrifocal systems (Eisler, 1987). Anthropological studies suggest that hunter-gatherer groups lived in cooperative social structures where child-rearing, resource-sharing, and decision-making were collective responsibilities (Hrdy, 2009).
Women’s circles played a crucial role in this context, offering emotional and physical support during key life moments such as menstruation, pregnancy, childbirth, and postpartum. Archaeologist Marija Gimbutas (1989) identified evidence of female-centered spiritual practices in prehistoric Europe, suggesting that ancient societies revered feminine wisdom and organized rituals around it.
The Loss of Communal Support and Maternal Isolation
With the transition to agricultural and later industrial societies, social structures changed dramatically. Communal living was replaced by small nuclear families, and women began experiencing motherhood in increasing isolation (Hrdy, 2009). This maternal isolation is a defining characteristic of modern life and has been linked to rising postpartum depression rates (Nelson, 2009).
The saying “It takes a village to raise a child” comes from African proverbs and reflects the essential need for communal support. In the past, mothers had natural support networks—grandmothers, sisters, and neighbors—whereas today, many go through motherhood without this fundamental safety net. Research on the neurobiology of motherhood shows that adequate social support significantly improves emotional regulation and reduces stress in mothers (Feldman, 2015).
The Revival of Women’s Circles in Modern Times
In recent years, we have witnessed a revival of women’s circles as a response to the urgent need for connection and support. Authors such as Jean Shinoda Bolen (1999) explore how women’s gatherings provide a safe space for emotional expression, healing, and empowerment. These gatherings help women reconnect with their intuition, honor natural cycles, and rebuild the support systems that have been lost in modern society.
Women’s circles are also spaces where important yet often silenced topics, such as female sexuality, can be openly discussed. Research on sexuality and well-being suggests that sharing experiences among women can improve self-esteem, break taboos, and promote a healthier experience of sexuality (Basson, 2000).
Conclusion: Rebuilding Our Village
Maternal isolation is not natural. For thousands of years, women were cared for by other women in a continuous flow of love, wisdom, and support. The resurgence of women’s circles is a reclaiming of this ancestral wisdom—a reminder that we were never meant to mother alone.
The Lioness Mother Circle recreates this village—a space where mothers and pregnant women can rest, share, learn, and grow together. Where support is not a luxury but an inherent right of every woman.
If you feel this calling, join us. Your village is waiting for you. 💛🌿
References
- Basson, R. (2000). “The Female Sexual Response: A Different Model.” Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy.
- Bolen, J. S. (1999). The Millionth Circle: How to Change Ourselves and the World. Conari Press.
- Diamant, A. (1997). The Red Tent. Picador.
- Eisler, R. (1987). The Chalice and the Blade: Our History, Our Future. HarperOne.
- Feldman, R. (2015). “The Adaptive Human Parental Brain: Implications for Children’s Social Development.” Trends in Neurosciences.
- Gimbutas, M. (1989). The Language of the Goddess. HarperCollins.
- Hrdy, S. B. (2009). Mothers and Others: The Evolutionary Origins of Mutual Understanding. Harvard University Press.
- Nelson, S. K. (2009). “Is More Always Better? Exploring the Effect of Maternal Support on Women’s Well-being.” Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.
